Down to the Wire
The placement date is looming. I've been calm for several weeks but I just had a moment of panic. Are we ready? Are we really, really, really ready?
I guess so...
The placement date is looming. I've been calm for several weeks but I just had a moment of panic. Are we ready? Are we really, really, really ready?
I guess so...
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5 comments:
Nobody is ever ready. On-the-job training is simply required. In a few weeks or months you will have to write the obligatory "I knew it would be hard but..." post. (Or not, I could be wrong.)
But I think you are as ready as it is possible to be, and you will rise to the challenge.
I'm excited too. It's been a long time coming!
You're as ready as you're ever going to be, my dear.
You already know it will be hard, the unknown is how you'll respond. For me, a police-style Taser, Lexapro and Xanax have been really, really helpful. But we have Schillinger lurking, and you don't.
You will be fine. I can't wait to hear about the ride.
I wasn't ready. You can't be. Like Maerlowe said -- you're as ready as you'll ever be.
Get lots of sleep.
Stop for a few minutes each day and just listen to how quiet your home is.
Take yourselves out to a nice dinner with friends.
This is the end of all of that.
But it is so worth it.
I think every parent has that moment of panic before the kid arrives (and probably several times after, too)!
But you have done a lot to educate yourself and be prepared.
I agree with Torina -- get lots of sleep! And go see a movie. It'll be a lot harder to do that in the future :)
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